Wholehearted Lover
Release shame & experience a joyful sexual relationship
Uncover what a great sex life would mean for you.
Sex is everywhere. But when was the last time you had a candid, sex-positive conversation? One where you shared your insecurities or that thing you really like but you’re too shy to ask for.
I’ve spent the last 15 years working in the field of sexuality and I can tell you the scripts we are given are sh*t. Wholehearted Lover is designed to undo those messages.
Experience pleasure on your terms.
Program Overview
Timeline
We’ll work one-on-one for three months. Sessions are twice a month for 45 minutes by phone or Zoom. Plus we'll be in contact via email throughout.
Homework
After the session, you’ll receive an email with suggested homework. This may include reading, podcasts, journaling, vision boards, or skill development.
Approach
We’ll use the dual-control model of sexuality taught by Emily Nagoski to determine if you have a more sensitive "brake" or a more sensitive "accelerator".
Skills
We’ll look at diet, stress, birth control & other libido “brakes.” You’ll learn specific techniques to improve pleasure for you and your partner.
Resources
We’ll look at how to rev up your accelerator. This will include foreplay, erotica, toys, sexual positions, and other pleasure enhancers.
Outcomes
The 3-month structure gives you the opportunity to incorporate each strategy into your life. You’ll have tools and support to move forward.
“Kim is warm, easy to talk to, a fantastic listener, and a total expert with sex toys and positions. She will be incredibly supportive no matter what turns you on.”
— N.N. (Former Client)
I opened a sexuality store in 2007.
Since then, I’ve read a LOT of books, attended countless workshops, and listened to hundreds of hours of podcasts and videos.
I draw on that wealth of knowledge and create a custom curriculum, just for you.
Resources
You’ll receive a personalized list of resources. Here’s a sample of what you can expect.
Love Languages
Discover your love language and the languages of your partner(s).
Feminist Erotica
Explore a curated selection of movies, audio stories, and other mediums.
Sex Toys
There are literally thousands of vibrators. I’ll help you choose the one that suits your needs.
Attachment Theory
Understand your attachment style and the attachment style of your partner(s).
Let’s chat.
What’s Included
Individual Coaching
Six (45 minute) one-on-one coaching sessions
Email Support
Share celebrations, challenges & questions
Custom Resources
Journal prompts, quizzes, & books
Fun Homework
Dance, massage, erotica, meditation & toys
Investment
$1497
Plus applicable taxes, charged in CAD. Monthly payment plans are available.
Apply to Wholehearted Lover
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